beyond the 140: all the pieces matter

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Boom shocka locka! You and I are on a similar page in regards to this Wright situation (no surprise there). While it's definitely an uncomfortable time for the Obama camp, this is exactly what needs to be happening, right now.

The truth is, society is afraid of complex black folk; we're either Oreos or niggers.

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I feel woefully inadequate and ill-equipped to participate in this conversation but I love reading it all. I have such a hard time with all the double-speak and falseness. I don't pay much attention, I guess - my only defense. I hope I'm not a terrible racist but I'm pretty sure I'm a little bit racist. I'm pretty sure we all are. But I wouldn't vote for someone based on ovaries or lack thereof any more than I'd vote for someone based on skin color matching or lack thereof. I want the job filled by someone who is competent, intelligent, effective and able to pronounce most words correctly.

Wouldn't that be refreshing?
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When I first heard Wright's NAACP speech, I was like, "Oh no, he's airing out all the conspiracy theories in one fell swoop." It is exactly the stuff you hear at the barbershop, or some church, or around your grandma's or mother's friends. It was like, he's out there and it's not behind closed doors amongst family, where people, even those of us who may not agree, at least understand the line of thought. It was out there on CNN, and it was out there in a relationship with and to someone who is running for president.

I thought, Obama would just continue to be silent. He gave his speech last month. He dealt with the race issue. (I agree with you he could have continued it) but now was a time for him to also be able to go ahead and deal with other issues. But he did cave, and hard, to media pressures. The media made Wright's media weekend about Obama -- it's not. It's bigger than Obama, it's race in America. It's black and white in America.

J says we're where we need to be -- but that's only if something comes of this. But if all that happens further is the demonization of Wright or some people's need and want for the currently most public black person to be responsible for and in control of all the other black people who "get out of line" -- then I am not so sure about this place we're in.
This, "If you're going to be the President of the United States of America," I think is the thing. This country, for all it's reality TV and celebrities wearing next to nothing, is pretty conservative. I've said this for a long time and anyone, no matter who he or she is, who wants to get ahead has to play such balancing acts. He may very well want to have those conversations, but my question is, can he? Can he and win? I'm not sure that he can and that statement says much about me, I'm afraid. In small focused groups constructive conversations about sensitive topics are doable but bring hundreds, thousands of voices into the mix and there are way too many emotions/thoughts/beliefs to keep focused and positive. It's hard. Especially when some people are on such short triggers that at the slightest (seemingly) controversial comment, it gets thrown out into the mix without allowing for the full conversation to be had. And suddenly it comes down to media management rather than a forwarding of the message. So how do you bring about change and win when, despite what some people say, the majority seems to be content being right where they're at?
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I'm with you dude. I would respect Obama a lot more if he stopped the political expediency nonsense and started calling sh*t out for what it is: fear-mongering, racial code speak, and a perverse double standard that black folks in general -- but black politicians in particular -- are held to.

But -- and here's that double standard again -- he can't. Black folks have to make white folks comfortable to get ahead. That means we can't get angry lest someone urge us to "calm down" and not "get ghetto."

And we can't speak in the fiery rhetorical style of black preachers -- talking loud, but not exactly yelling, at least not yelling with anger -- without being perceived as violently and disturbingly pissed the eff off.

We can't "stop snitchin'" without folks talking about black pathology. But no one points out the parallels to the mafia or damn near every police department's Blue Wall of Silence. Or you know, the fact that snitching may get you killed.

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It's the same game Hillary is playing in some ways. Exhibit A: that half-crazy cackle she developed. It's really a way to bury her anger so people don't call her a bitch.

The difference, of course, is that Hillary has that White Woman thing that gives her currency with northeastern white voters. Those voters, by the way, are showing their a** with regards to race right now. <cynic>I think in hindsight, it will be clear Hillary is telling a painful truth about Obama's electability.</cynic>
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Basically, if Obama gets angry, his given middle (Hussein) name won't mean much. He will instead be known as Barack "The Scary, Angry, and Potentially Violent Black Man" Obama. Hell, Howard Dean got screamed just a little too excitedly into a mic and immediately became Howard "That Crazy Mother F*cker" Dean.

But now, he is, and maybe he has to be Barack "I'm a Safe Negro" Obama. I am losing respect for him because he's not, as you say, furthering the conversation. He's not being honest. He's not being authentic. He's being a politician right now -- and a politician a la Bill Clinton circa 1992-1993 (The Sister Souljah and Lani Guinier period). That's not a good look for the Hope-meister.

Ooooooh, there's so much more to say (and we've had these discussions on Twitter) about Obama, Wright, race and perception (and to a lesser extent Hillary and gender). I could be here for the next 6 hours writing stuff. Instead I'll try to sum up points 2-5 in short bursts.

* Why does every black person at some point have to be The Negro Spokesman for white people? One person can't speak for 12,999,999 other folks.

* Why are Americans both remarkably ignorant of history and incapable of connecting history to today, particularly with regards to race?

* Why are black folks called upon to prove how American we are, despite a long history of patriotism, and a disproportionate level of service in our military? (Although to me, the more interesting question is 'Why haven't black folks pulled some Timothy McVeigh-type stuff considering our history here?' Oh wait. COINTELPRO might explain that.)

* And I STILL wish that Obama's answer to the "Is he Muslim?" question was more like "Why should my religion matter at all? I would hope that my policies and my record of getting things done are what people care about. But since it seems to matter to you, I am a Christian." It calls out the prejudice. It reminds people to look at his policies. It corrects the falsehood. And it forces the audience member to question his / her bigotry implicitly while calling the interviewer out explicitly.

And I know my train of thought got jumped the track a little bit. I blame a combo of beer and the fact that it's like 3 hours past my bed time.
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Excellent commentary for we have been airing a lot of the racial divide here in America. I agree!

Honestly, I have been tired of people not trying to be truthful in addressing some of the problems in our world (white/black). However, I appreciate those like Rev. Wright who can tell it like it is. BUT I was pretty much surprised at the Question/Answer session at the National Press Club. That is when I honestly realized that Rev. Wright pushed the line and that he needs to be quiet. He started getting too comfortable in sharing a lot when he already had his foot in the door with the Bill Moyers interview and with his National Press Club address. But the Question and Answer session of the National Press Club address showed his arrogance that needed to be toned down a lot.

Though I know for myself I want an honest discussion on race, sometimes when we have these honest discussions we need to have an agenda where we are not preaching to others but are patient and not arrogant in how you come across. That is why I am pretty much tired of listening to any more discussions of Rev. Wright because now his true message is going to be distorted by the media trying to overly analyze every thing that he says and miss the point which is that we are an ill informed community when it comes to knowing our history both black, white, European, etc.

Thank you for sharing with us!
I think even more than that, Black folks are afraid to be out there publicly as complex folks. Our complexities, our anger, our world view is a detriment to getting ahead in integrated communities.

And I don't think that's limited to Black folks. All of us are different behind closed doors. We know, however, that black-white relationships have a particular problem in this country and it is ruled heavily by fear on both sides.
This is exactly how I see it.
Patricia, this is the problem, right? And this is the problem with Obama's entire campaign. I'm willing to drop my cynical attitude about politics if we're really going to talk about a paradigm shift. If we're willing to challenge assumptions, to move forward, to change the game.

But, if Obama is going to simply accept conventional wisdom -- that race in America is "too complicated" for a genuine politician to discuss intelligently -- then, while he'll still get my vote, he's lost a bit of his ability to convince me that "yes, we can."

I didn't jump on the bandwagon to stay cynical.
Hee. Sorry for keeping you up late, Tiffany. :-)

I wanted to integrate The Real World stuff into my post but couldn't make it work. He's what I cut:
This is the thing - I don't know what happens in other racial communities when I'm not around (Although, if last week's Real World is any indication, some folks are constantly worried about black people going "ghetto" especially if they come from the blackest "blackville") and I'm not going to reveal what happens at Secret Council of American Negroes meetings -- you don't know the handshake -- but I do know that many of us (and this is a universal us) worry that we're being thought of negatively along racial lines. For me, it's the purse shuffle on the street, the uncomfortable smile, the shoplifting accusation, the surprise at my job or station, the backhanded compliment. It is the constant battle against how we believe we're perceived in the world. For black folks, most of the time, the perception is we're undervalued. Less than. Metaphorically 3/5ths even if no longer constitutionally so.
So, you know, I'm sayin'...get outta my head.

You said, "he needs to be quiet." This is exactly what I don't want anymore.

We're a hundred years past Paul Lawrence Dunbar's We Wear the Mask poem and that sentiment is still true? No! No! A million times, no!

Take it off.

We Wear the Mask

WE wear the mask that grins and lies,
It hides our cheeks and shades our eyes,—
This debt we pay to human guile;
With torn and bleeding hearts we smile,
And mouth with myriad subtleties.

Why should the world be over-wise,
In counting all our tears and sighs?
Nay, let them only see us, while
We wear the mask.

We smile, but, O great Christ, our cries
To thee from tortured souls arise.
We sing, but oh the clay is vile
Beneath our feet, and long the mile;
But let the world dream otherwise,
We wear the mask!


I have nothing meaningful to contribute presently. I can only just tell you that iTunes shuffle decided Nina belting "Mississippi Goddamn" was what I was going to listen to while reading this. Nina knows.
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I think even more than that, Black folks are afraid to be out there publicly as complex folks. Our complexities, our anger, our world view is a detriment to getting ahead in integrated communities.

Agreed.

Truly, as it stands to day, no Black person, male or female at this stage in our nation's emotional and intellectual maturity is going to be deemed ultimately electable without having to disassociate themselves from their race and all of beliefs and fears that go with it. I thought Obama would be able to work his way through this. Now I'm nervous. Not only by his reactions. But for the way some folks have reacted to Wright AND thereby disowned Obama. But I recall somone on twitter saying last evening those folks were looking for a reason to jump, anyway. Silly of me to think this nation might actually be ready to grow up and perhaps even cast a nod to the Elephant in the room. By his "patriotism" has been in question since the beginning, why would that stop now, when he's come farther than anyone ever expected?

On a side note, ever notice how when Michelle Obama gets an opportunity to speak, there is an overarching uneasiness about her candor and directness? You know there is so much thought and opinion and anger beneath the surface of that woman that's likely common in many of us, yet she's been walking the tightrope since the campaign began. She's not said anything nearly as provocative as Wright, and yet each time she opens her mouth someone is poised to call her "Un-American." In fact, I'm waiting for the Un-American Activities Committee to be relaunched any day now. Oh wait, they changed their name to the Committee on Internal Security, and now finally Homeland Security.

America, safe from angry people with opinions.


Nina's always right :-) Even when she's wrong.
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I actually agree with you, Jason, but you know that in order for some of the people in this world to listen to us that we have to play it cool to get where we need to be and then we can talk more openly. My mother actually had to calm me down because I was as vehement as you on this issue. Did you see this video by Dr. Boyce Watkins? He really says it for me but then I know the other side of the game like all of us.

I understand how you feel for I am frustrated every single day too.

I work in the hospitality industry in corporate management and I have to tell you that you have to be cool with a lot of people before you can open up and allow them to know exactly how we feel. If we come off too strong in the beginning some people will not listen. I know what it is like wearing the mask. I wear it every day and sometimes I despise that I have to play that game but it is a part of my life. But that is only at work when I am like that otherwise in relationships here online and elsewhere I am me.

Paul Lawerence Dunbar did say it right but remember what Langston Hughes said, "Life Ain't No Crystal Stair."

[[Jason & to all of us]]

I understand how you feel Jason, but I also understand Mr. Obama and where he is coming from. I believe he is attempting to be non-controversial non-radical non-extremist and non-threatening. I feel that Barack Obama is attempting to be a good diplomat and give Americans a sense that all of our concerns are acknowledged and considered. I also feel that if he is going to take a sort of middle of the road stance he needs to be consistent. I feel the way the Reverend Wright situation has been handled is unfortunate. Obama, again being diplomatic and middle of the road, has to separate himself from the controversy, but I hate that he has had to publicly defend himself by commenting specifically on comments made by Reverend Wright. I feel that addressing this controversy has been a bad move when all the hype would have been best handled by dismissing it as such and sticking to the issues that are really important. Simply because he has addressed this and given it some weight has allowed the media to run with it, spin it and turn it every which way but loose. I’m sure Hiliary is somewhere smiling for a job well done. Reverend Wright and Obama have had a long standing relationship and Reverend Wright did not just become militant if you will over night. I joined his church 10 years ago because of the Afrocentristic and politically charged nature of his sermons and the very articulate and intelligent way that he delivered them. "The person I saw yesterday was not the person that I met 20 years ago. His comments were not only divisive and destructive, but I believe they end up giving comfort to those that prey on hate." (Barack Obama on Rev. Wright) Reverend Jeremiah Wright epitomizes what has historically been necessary in the black church and has his place as does Obama. "did not portray accurately the perspective of the black church," and continuing by adding "don't portray accurately my values and beliefs." Well, that’s fine but comments like those bring into question what and who is and will be easier to dismiss when White folks get nervous.

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this is very good....but....

you haven't said anything I've disagreed with ... you've covered all the bases...

yet, i keep thinking that in this entire discussion, something is missing... I dunno... I keep mulling this over

i keep thinking about my grandfather, who had a real reason to be pissed off...among other things his father died because a white doctor wouldn't "treat a nigger"... yet he distanced his analysis, his actions, from his feelings... not in fear but in.... restraint(?)

Again, I need to mull it over

But like I said, great post.

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